21 Best Sympathy Gift Ideas to Show Your Condolences

The death of a loved one is traumatic. Whether you’re shopping for a friend or a close family member who is bereaved, our list will provide you with appropriate and thoughtful sympathy gift ideas that let them know you’re there for them during this difficult time.

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A thoughtful condolence gift is a great way to share your deepest sympathies with the grieving. Our sympathy gift ideas are ideal for friends and family during troubled times. Flowers and cards are nice, but sometimes the loss of a loved one requires something more significant. A physical gift can help prove how much you care, and offer an outlet for grief.

Sympathy gifts can be sent as soon as you hear news of someone's passing, or sent after the funeral. According to this Reddit thread, many bereaved people feel especially vulnerable around six weeks after the funeral, when most offers of support have stopped coming in. That's why you might want to send a card or flowers first, and consider sending your sympathy gift around the six-week mark.

It is generally not appropriate to bring a gift to the funeral itself, since the bereaved may not be set up to accept or transport gifts.

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