If you’re looking to heat things up, we’ve gathered the best sexy gifts of 2023. There’s a wide range of risque gifts with something on here for everyone’s comfort level. A quality blindfold or a pick from our How to Build a Sex Room of Your Own is another quick way to add some spice to the bedroom.
This box set of 10 We-Vibe toys is a perfect gift for a couple, especially if they’re new to toys.
The Discover Box is filled with 10 individually numbered boxes so the couple can either open them all at once or decide they’ll open one box at a time and play with whatever they open.
The box includes a We-Vibe couples’ vibe that is meant to be worn during intercourse to increase pleasure, sexy dice, a feather tickler, a sash blindfold, a massage candle where the wax turns into a massage oil when melted, and a tube of We-Vibe water-based lubricant.
There’s also the Womanizer Starlet which is a travel-sized suction toy great for clitoral or nipple stimulation. I got my hands on a media sample of their full-size version the Melt, and it’s my go-to for solo play. It also comes with the Tango mini waterproof vibe, kegel ball for play and pelvic floor strengthening, and Dusk an anal toy that pairs with the Tango for stimulating vibration.
It’s the best advent calendar that isn’t really an advent calendar.
Bringing bondage into your love life can really send the excitement through the roof, but the set up can be a headache. I love my under the bed restraints because they’re fast, easy, and effective.
But as much as I love my simple four-cuff straps, this set is way better and I need to upgrade. The set comes with two adjustable straps that slip over the top and bottom of your mattress and are big enough to fit over even king size beds.
Here’s the fun bit: each strap has a series of d-rings that you can clip the included cuffs to which means you have loads of position options. Want to keep their hands close together but their legs spread wide? You can do that. Want them spread-eagle? You can do that too.
The cuffs (two smaller for wrists and two larger for ankles) are velcro so they’re comfortable, easy to put on, and fast to remove when it’s time to breakdown.
Fans of the Fifty Shades series will get a huge kick out of this parody cookbook.
It’s a chicken cookbook written in the style of a kinky erotica novel with the chicken as the main character and the cook as the devious but sexy Dom.
It contains recipes like Mustard Spanked Chicken, Dripping Thighs, and Popped-Cherry Pullet as well as instructions on the basics including how to properly truss a chicken.
There are page-long sections of bordering on graphic conversations between the chicken and her cook as well as little snippets before each recipe. If you and your partner or friend have enjoyed the 50 Shades books or movies together, you’ll love reading these out loud to each other while laughing your heads off.
Plus the recipes are actually good. A lot of joke cookbooks don’t worry too much about how the food comes out, but this one is actually useful as well as hilarious.
Take your love life off the ground with a sex swing that takes 30 seconds to install.
Suspension is hot but I’m not a contractor and don’t feel comfortable trying to hang a person from my ceiling. That’s where door restraints like the Sportsheets Over the Door Swing come in.
In order to install the swing, you place the two stoppers over the top of the opposite side of the door and then close the door. That’s it. Now you can get your lover situated in the swing.
The swing itself is a wide padded loop for sitting on, two padded thigh or footrests, and two loops for gripping. The straps are sturdy nylon and can hold up to around 325 pounds.
A swing gives the standing partner full control over your body and they can pull and push you to their heart’s content. It’s a rush.
This isn’t the perfect gift for a couple who share a home with parents or roommates since the swing is right up against the closed door so your activities are probably going to produce some thumping.
There are also plenty of more substantial options for sex furniture if you have the budget for it.
If you only get one book of sexual positions, the Big Black Book is the one to get.
First off, it’s huge. I’m talking 360 pages of information here along with full-color illustrations. But maybe more importantly, it’s got amazing advice about all the stuff that makes sex amazing beyond the position. You can get into the most exciting pose the Karma Sutra has to offer, but if you’re both not in the mood, it’s not going to work.
Their sections on foreplay and getting into the mood are worth the price of the book alone in how much it will improve your love life. We all know foreplay is important (even the Chuch during the Middle Ages suggested prolonged foreplay in the De Secretis Mulierum) but this book takes it to another level.
In their view, foreplay is everything you do before, after, and during sex. Your entire day can be foreplay and when you start thinking about your relationship like that, you might find you’re looking at your interactions differently.
Okay, but the sex positions you’re all interested in: they are many and varied with nice illustrations and helpful tips. There are entire sections for oral sex for both parties and each section ends in with an exciting position challenge to take on.
The positions are traditionally gendered as a heterosexual couple but the book makes sure to mention that all the positions can be rearranged for any gender or combination and that parties should consider switching top and bottom roles a few times to try it out.
The Getaway Kit includes a kissable vanilla body oil, vanilla-flavored kissable body powder, feather tickler, massage candle, and a little back bag for travel. With these items, you can create a sexy mood by pampering their body and teasing them with the tickler.
To encourage all-over kisses, most of the products are flavored. This French Kiss kit is vanilla flavored but they also offer a Sweet Desire option that has raspberry truffle body powder and jasmine and goji berry candle. The items are described as kissable which I’m guessing means edible but sitting down to eat the whole bottle isn’t recommended.
They’re all TSA-approved trial-size bottles making them easy to travel with and stick in your bag last minute to spice up your trip.
You play O-ing Tower like the traditional block tower games of trying to remove a block on your turn without toppling the tower over, except each block has a dare or question written on it that you have to do or answer after you remove it.
They can be things like “Hug your lover from behind,” or name “three adorable things about your partner.” Some of the blocks can get a little dirty but you can skip them for a penalty. Before the game starts you agree on a penalty of your choice like taking a shot or removing a piece of clothing. The person who knocks the tower down, also has to do the penalty.
This game is a nice evening of laughs and that could easily lead to more.
It’s fun to get messy–right up until it’s time to clean up. These TOP Waterproof Blankets are meant to protect your bed, couch, or wherever making clean up quick and easy.
They are waterproof, absorbent, and noiseless, unlike some cheaper blankets that have a plastic center that crinkles when you move which is not sexy. This blanket is covered in soft fleece and is reversible so you don’t have to worry about remembering which side is waterproof.
They quickly contain lube, massage oils, bodily fluids, and anything else liquid you can throw at it so you can move the throw to the floor after play and no one has to sleep in the wet spot or get up to change the sheets. They can also double as seating on wet grass, blankets for messy children, or to protect furniture from pets.
To clean, the throws are machine washable and dryable. Just keep in mind that the blanket is designed to soak up liquid so you’ll want to send it through a second spin cycle before throwing it in the dryer.
There’s nothing like a sensual, slippery massage to heat things up and the Mango Kiss Me oil is both good for your skin and edible.
The oil has a lovely glide for muscle massage and doesn’t leave a sticky residue. It can double as a lubricant when you’re ready to move past the rubbing and grinding. It’s also generally non-staining which is good news for your sheets.
It’s a blend of natural oils sweet almond oil, jojoba oil, coconut oil, and vitamin E. Add natural flavoring and that’s the entire ingredient list. I also like that they’re sugar-free and cruelty-free.
it’s important to remember you can’t mix oils and latex condoms as oils can break down the strength of the condom. So if you’re planning to use condoms, skip this even if you don’t intend to use it as a lube. Also, keep in mind that these contain almond oil so avoid them if you or your partner have nut allergies
The design allows for it to be used for more comfortable face-sitting, easier receiver-on-top play with less back or knee strain, or as a wedge (with more bounce) to help lift a partner’s hips, whether face up or face down. That’s just a start. You can pretty much let your imagination run wild with this one.
The external portion has seven vibrating modes to provide the stimulation they need to climax. For the wearer, the vibrations travel along the silicone shaft for a tingling buzz to enhance their experience.
I love that it’s USB rechargeable so you don’t have to worry about batteries as well as water-resistant.
If one partner deals with pelvic pain, especially with a sensitive cervix, these Ohnuts are worth more than their weight in gold.
As someone who has a lot of cervical discomfort with deep penetration, (Size Queens, my hat is off to you, I don’t know how you do it), these Ohnuts have been a personal revelation for me. And just a note: I didn’t receive these in exchange for a review or anything. My partner got them for me for the holidays.
The interlocking squishy rings are positioned on the base of the shaft of whatever you’re working with and effectively shorten it, allowing for more comfortable shallow penetration. You can use only one or up to all of them, depending on your sensitivity and comfort level. It’s a game changer.
And sure, maybe “shallow penetration” is not the hottest word to the people who would be wearing these things, but being able to lay into their partner as hard and fast as they (both) like without worrying about hurting them is well worth it.
This Front-Clasp Baby Doll Nightie is a nice call whether you’re buying for yourself to wear to surprise your partner or buying for your partner to wear. Baby doll style lingerie looks great on all body shapes and is forgiving in sizing.
You really only need to worry about fitting the bust because the rest of it is so open and flowing and the straps are adjustable. It clasps in the front making it easy to open (a dramatic reveal) and take off quickly.
It’s available in sizes small to XX-L and comes in dark blue, black, dark red, purple, and mint.
Spreader bars are hot and if you or your partner is into the 50 Shades books, they’ll definitely have had some fantasies about spreader bars.
This adjustable bar has four rings for attaching the included wrist and ankle cuffs, two on the very end and two near the center. With these four points, you can come up with some fun arrangements. Using the two locking ring pins you can collapse, extend the bar depending on how far apart you want their ankles, or even disassemble it for storage.
If you want to make their eyes go wide with anticipation and a little bit of fear (the fun kind) this is the toy to get. I actually bought my spreader bar as a Christmas gift for my partner. It was a fun expression on their face.
The spreader bar is one of those tools I like to break out when I want my partner to feel really vulnerable. You can twist and get some movement with most restraints, but it’s hard to wrestle with a stainless steel pole.
For couples interested in trying all the fun a strap on can offer, this Beginner Pegging Kit is the perfect place to start.
This kit has been around for a good long while and I bought it for myself back when I was in undergrad–money well spent. It comes with everything you need to start playing.
The kit comes with an adjustable four-strap harness that fits most body types. In the past, I’ve used this harness with folks in a wide range of sizes and it’s always fit. It can be a little fiddly to get into the first couple of times but it’s easily adjustable, secure, and doesn’t cover up the wearer’s bits.
It comes with one o-ring and the snaps make it easy to switch out for other rings so you can fit a wide range of strap ons as you expand your collection.
You also get one flared base beginner dildo that is super smooth, flexible, and quite small. The toy is pure silicone and can be sanitized by boiling.
In whatever arrangement of genders and roles you’re using it for, the first couple of times you play with a strap on are going to be awkward and a little clumsy. That’s normal. Give it more than one try and use plenty of lube. Once you get the hang of it, you’ll wonder how you lived without it.
A simple blindfold can do more to spice up the night than you may realize. It fosters your bond of trust and creates a sense of excitement. The handcuffs don’t hurt either.
This nice and affordable beginner’s set comes with a soft blindfold and four adjustable, velcro-closures cuffs for wrists and ankles. I love velcro for beginners’ sets because they are quick to get out of if someone decides they’d like to end the scene. Each cuff has a nylon strop so it can be attached to the place of your choice.
We all know the sexy scenes where someone drips candle wax on their lover–but if you do that with any store-bought candle someone is going to get burned.
This 12-Piece Set of 7.8-inch candles has a low melting point meaning the wax won’t be as hot as regular candles. You get the sexy sting without actual pain or burns.
Anal play has gotten less and less taboo which is great so if you think it’s time to give it a try, this Butt Plug Trainer Kit is the perfect starter set to experiment.
The set comes with 100 percent silicone plugs in three graduated sizes so you can start small and work your way up when and if you’re ready. Silicone is the way to go for toys in general but especially for butt stuff as silicone can be safely boiled for cleaning or run through the dishwasher (if you don’t have roommates.)
Where these stand out is the base. A flared base is crucial for anal toys because no one wants to have that ER visit where you can’t get the toy out. But, many flared bases are circular and uncomfortable.
The thick t-bar base design on these sits snugly between your cheeks so that the toy is securely in place but also is comfortable enough that you could wear it all day. Plugs are the sort of thing that wearing them makes both intercourse and housework a lot more fun.
Use plenty of water-based lube (never silicone) and you’ll be surprised how easy it is. The medium plug is a good everyday size and the largest is for more experienced users.
Butt stuff is fun for all genders. We’ve all got nerve-endings up there to explore and people with prostates can have some mind-blowing orgasms with these.
Spontaneous, fiery passion is awesome and all, but intimacy is a whole other level of sexy. Love Language is a card game designed to inspire conversation and increase intimacy.
Developed by a couple’s psychologist, the cards have questions and prompts that help to start the two of you talking about subjects you might have considered or learn more about each other’s inner world.
It’s great for new couples to get to know each other and for long-term relationships who think they may already know everything there is to know.
Comfortable silence in a relationship is really healthy, but if you find you’re having a difficult time engaging in conversation when you want to be, this game could be a good call.
If you’re planning to wear these, your partner is going to drop their jaw in their lap. If you’re getting them for your partner to wear, they’ll love how sexy they feel but also how comfortable and flattering the tights are.
This is something they can wear all year round to feel extra sexy under their clothes. With a longer skirt, these would look like sexy black pantyhose but only hint at how hot they really are above the knee.
The suspender pantyhose give you the sexy look of garter belts without having to struggle with those tiny little buckles that are always coming undone anyway.
This pack comes with four styles of stocking and the listing has several different combinations you can choose from. If you’re concerned about sizing, check out these hot plus size versions.
Hot tip: These stockings are open so if you skip the panties you can keep the tights on during your play sessions without them getting in the way.
On one end is a black marabou stork feather (super soft) and on the other end is a small faux leather crop. These are perfect for teasing the entire body and driving the senses wild. You don’t have to use the crop end if that’s not your thing but if you do they give a playful spank that can spice the night up.
There are few things more sensual than perfect sheets and Cariloha’s Resort line of bamboo sheets are out of this world.
They have the soft, slinkiness of satin without too much slip. On satin sheets, your knees can really slide out from under you when you’re trying to get down to business. These sheets have a balance of silky softness but you can still grip them for leverage.
I’ve had bamboo sheets in the past so I wasn’t expecting anything particularly special when Cariloha sent me a media sample to try out, with zero promise that I’d ever review them. But they’re now some of my favorite sheets.
I do think I drove my husband a little batty that first night because the sheets felt so good that I kept moving my legs around to enjoy the sensation.
The sheets are made from 100 percent eco-friendly bamboo viscose and are very breathable to help keep you cool as you sleep (or don’t sleep).
They come in sizes from queen to split king and in a wide range of colors. This blush tone is very soft and sensual and their onyx is a little more raw and sexy.
This sexy babydoll is slit in the front for easy access and looks undeniably hot on a range of body shapes.
It comes in many different colors but this red satin and black lace trim are Christmas-y without going all the way over into Mrs. Claus territory which is more my style personally. (Plus it can be worn all year round.) The fabric is soft and comfortable as well as sexy.
For those rocking larger sizes, this is a good option as it has adjustable straps, clings in some places, and is loosely flared for comfort. It comes in sizes XL to 5XL with a size chart to check your measurements.
Academic studies have shown that people view someone wearing red as significantly more attractive than the same item of clothing in a different color. Christmas lingerie are clearly doing something right.
Much more fun than sex coupons, these partnering checks are funnier, less lewd, allow for more customization.
They’re set up just like a normal checkbook but instead has 30 IOUs and 30 UOMs (you owe me) with different prompts. I love that there are options with either check boxes or fill in the blank sections so you can make the fun fit your relationship.
Most of the prompts either aren’t dirty or have several options to choose from with different levels of sexy to match your comfort level, like this one check for “deliciously dirty dining” where the options escalate from “Making me dessert,” to “Serving me dinner naked,” to “Making me the dessert.”
Some are just sweet and involve writing love letters and even the risque ones are tempered by the financial language like the IOU for a “new sexual investment strategy” with options like “market-testing a new product,” or “Mixing up our stock positions.”
If you’re shopping for a Christmas gift, consider this Glass Candy Cane. You have to have a good sense of humor for this one, but it also feels surprisingly incredible. (Yes, I do actually own this.)
This festive glass dildo is shaped just like a candy cane. Really. You could leave this on the coffee table and your kids or Great Aunt Erma would think it’s a nice Christmas decoration. Except it isn’t.
Glass toys are in a league of their own because they’re so smooth that insertion in is a breeze. Plus it’s non-porous, easy to clean, and can be heated or cooled for extra fun.
Beyond the fact that it makes you want to giggle, the candy cane is an unintimidating toy at 0.8 inches in diameter and only seven inches long. It’s easy to insert even for those who are far from size-queens.
You can use both ends of it, the long side is straightforward and the curved side requires a little more dexterity but once you’ve got it situated, the g-spot orgasms can be never-ending. I mean, look at the crook of that thing and think about the firm pressure you can get with something like glass.
Candy canes are looking sexier and sexier now aren’t they?
If you’re looking for something not too risque or maybe want to turn up the volume (or frequency) of your oral game, try a new flavored lube. CandiLand by Doc Johnson has a five-pack of one-ounce (TSA-friendly) lubricant bottles in flavors like red licorice, cotton candy, watermelon rock candy, peppermint stick, and strawberry bon bon.
They are water-based so they are compatible with toys and condoms.
For people new to toys or who are turned off by the look of standard vibrators, there’s a whole line of discreet vibes and this Lipstick Vibe is something you could leave on your dresser or in your purse without worrying you’ll be caught out.
The lipstick portion of the vibe is made of skin-safe silicone and the casing and cap are plastic, just like any normal lipstick case would be. It has a surprising range of vibration strengths and 10 modes for a little something extra.
It charges magnetically so there’s no plug or battery to give the lipstick away.
This is perfect for people scared to try vibrators or want something they can easily hide.
This kissing bell is a cute gift for the person who sometimes feels like they’d like more attention than they’re getting.
It can be hard when a partner really needs some affection but doesn’t know how to ask for it without sounding needy. This bell is like year-round mistletoe. No more guesswork, no more wishing someone would get the hint. If one of you rings it, you know there has been a request for a kiss.
And this is a gift that works for both of you so you can ring it as well on days when you need an extra snuggle but aren’t sure how to say it. It’s cute, playful, light-hearted, and affordable which is always a plus.
If sexy to you is more about creating a romantic atmosphere, pick up these flameless candles so you can have flickering candlelight with the convenience of a remote and no fire danger.
This five-candle set from Vinkor has five different heights of pillar candles from four inches tall to eight inches tall. They’re made of real wax and have a unique flame that isn’t just a molded piece of plastic.
The flame is created by a thin reflective flame piece on a hinge that’s set above an LED light. The heat from the LED creates lift for the thin reflective flame making it rock and flicker.
They run on AA batteries (not included) and are controlled by a remote.
It’s a great option if you want soft mood lighting but don’t want to get up out of bed, sweaty and exhausted, to blow out candles.
Travel back to a time when men wore revealing shorts with these split side boxers from Banana Bucket.
This is a good choice for men’s lingerie that is both comfortable and sexy. The fabric is lightweight and smooth, an elastic waistband gives them room to move, and there’s no pouch to over-sexualize them. It’ll feel like they’re wearing nothing with the benefit of looking extra hot.
The split leg is not something you see every day, giving a glimpse all the way up the thigh and drawing attention to the whole package. It’s going to be hard not to grab onto these when they’re on.
They come in neutral colors as well as in a three-pack.
For a quality water-based lubricant, Lulu is condom-safe, American-made, glycerin-free, un-scented, and un-flavored.
It’s simple and non-threatening for folks who might be a little hesitant. If you or they haven’t ventured into the world of lube yet, it can make all the difference in the world.
Here’s a cute gag gift that’s funny for the two of you and funnier if you have good-humored housemates.
Announce your conquests with this straight-forward pillow. You can also use it to make suggestions. Leave it on a surface you haven’t crossed off the list yet to mark it as a suggestion or challenge when your partner sees it.
Keep in mind the listing is for the pillow cover. If you don’t already have a pillow insert, you can pick them up pretty cheaply.
It includes a breakfast in bed bamboo tray table, porcelain cup and saucer, porcelain plate, vase with a red rose, mimosa flute, Stonewall Kitchen pancake mix, single-serving maple syrup and strawberry jam jars, a bag of 150 silk rose petals, and a heart-shaped mold to create heart pancakes.
You also get a breakfast grocery list and a recipe card for additional items.
Your partner will feel pampered and loved. Maybe they’ll be so appreciative they’ll invite you back into bed.
A lot of couples’ toys focus on clitoral stimulation, but the Manta focuses on the phallic side of things.
The Manta is designed to fit around the shaft and can be used for solo play, as an aid during oral sex (apply to the base for a deep throat effect), or to turn your dick into a vibrator by holding it between you and your partner during sex. It’s great for hetero and gay couples.
It has six speeds and six patterns of vibration and the vibe portion can be locked to ensure it doesn’t go off accidentally. It’s waterproof, rechargeable, and made of medical-grade silicone. Fun Factory is a trustworthy, ethical brand you can feel good about.
They look great with lingerie or with a short skirt and the satin bows are an extra touch for those like to feel girly. They come in a range of colors and most are one-size-fits-most but a few colors come in plus size.
The stockings stay up fairly well, but no thigh high stockings are going to stay up completely without a garter belt. Luckily, garter belts are extremely sexy so it’s no loss.
Adult dice are a spicing-things-up cliche for a reason–they’re equal parts giggles and sexy. This set comes with one action die, one props die, and two position dice. They give suggested rules for playing but you can make up your own game with these easily.
The reason I like this set is that the action die includes two actions per side so there’s always an element of choice.
Sex dice are a playful way to change up your routine. There’s always some silliness because an odd roll of the dice can result in unexpected scenarios but giggling is part of it. It’s the kind of fun that often evolves into something more.
Keep in mind that the dice and booklet are very gendered to a heterosexual couple.
If you’re looking for the slickest of the slick you need to check out Ultra by Wicked. It’s perfect for extended play, bath or shower play, or anal sex.
Water-based lubes have a limited life in use because your body will absorb the water from them. Silicone lubes like this one aren’t absorbed by the body so they stay slick until you wash them off. Ride is condom-safe but can’t be used on silicone toys.
If you’re thinking about introducing a paddle into your sex life, here’s a great beginner paddle that leaves a patterned mark and sounds louder than it is.
The paddle is made up of a stiff panel of faux leather, topped with a strip of colored paper, and then topped with a flexible panel of faux leather with designs cut out of it. This set up has two fun benefits.
The multiple panels slap against each other so you can get a loud, satisfying crack without having to spank too hard. This is nice for people just starting out who aren’t in it for the pain factor.
My favorite part is that the pattern of the cut out is left imprinted on your sub’s skin. That’s why it’s backward on the panel so it will be readable when printed on their rear.
The paddles come in a variety of patterns from sweet like the XOXO paddle or Hearts paddle to spicier versions with words like Brat and Slut.
I had the Slut paddle for a while and it left readable marks without too much force which was a lot of fun for both of us.
If what your lover feels most sensual in the bath, get them this Spa Bath Gift Set that comes with kits for three different sexy baths.
In the box there are three separate boxes and each has a bath bomb, cleansing facial sponge, and three hand-poured scented tea lights. Each set has different fragrances so it’s three gifts in one.
Each element is hand-crafted in California and is cruelty-free.
If you’re looking for a game with the potential to get downright raunchy, check out this one.
Loopy is a spin-the-wheel game and you perform actions base on what you land on or what’s on the card the wheel says to draw. There’s a wide range from conversation topics to serious heavy petting.
The language on the game is very gendered which is a downside for me, but if that doesn’t bother you it’ll make for an exciting date night in.
The real wooden box looks festive and innocent enough but you get to fill it with whatever gifts you are offering in the 24 empty drawers. Every day in December your lover can open a new drawer and see what they’re getting.
Fun gift ideas include written coupons for a back rub, long makeout session, relaxing bubble bath for two, or plenty more adult prizes I’m sure you can think of. You can also include small adult toys like discreet vibes, flavored lubes, interesting condoms, or stamina rings. It’s a fun way to keep the excitement going all month long.
If this is a little out of your budget, they make advent calendar box sets of 24 labeled cardboard gift boxes that are significantly more affordable.
For folks with experience with strap-ons or pegging, a strapless strap-on takes it to the next level and is a fun gift to open up new experiences.
In case you’re squinting at this picture, here’s how a strapless strap-on works. The wearer inserts the shorter bulb end which has a narrow neck so it’s easier to hold the toy using your Kegels. The shaft of the toy now acts as the insertable portion of a strap-on to use on your partner.
The best thing about a strap is the person doing the pegging etc. can really feel it. There’s a greater connection to the shaft than with a traditional strap on. Any movement of the shaft creates movement and pleasure for the person wearing it.
It can be worn by inserting the bulb end vaginally or anally so people of all genders can be in the driver’s seat. The angle sits right up against the g-spot or p-spot too. If you don’t have strong Kegels, it might take a little practice to use this without it slipping out, but it’s so worth it. My advice is to use as little lube as possible when inserting the bulb so it doesn’t have any extra help to slip right out.
My partner and I bought this toy to replace Fun Factory’s Share which we found too heavy and long. Now it’s our new strapless go-to. This one is much lighter, shorter in length, and slightly less girthy in the bulb. It’s a better choice for beginners than the Share.
I haven’t even gotten to the vibrations yet. The toy has two vibrating motors, one in the bulb and the other in the tip and they are strong. Not Magic Wand strong, but they’re getting there. There are nine vibration modes and strengths but they’re all too strong for my tastes to use while wearing but can be fun in other contexts.
The vibration can be controlled by a button at the base or using the included remote control. It charges with a cable that plugs in like an aux cable making the silicone toy splashproof but not waterproof.
As much as sex furniture can greatly improve enjoyment and comfort, it can be hard to store out of sight, but this Heart Pillow from Liberator is a position wedge you can leave on your bed without folks being any the wiser.
This is a great choice for someone looking to branch out into aids but would rather they didn’t look like what they’re meant for. This heart pillow is friendly and unassuming–but packs a punch.
The wedge shape helps to elevate and tilt the hips for more comfortable and deeper penetration. It works well to better position your partner (or yourself) to receive oral. For easier entry from behind, lean over the pillow to elevate your rear and take the strain off your lower back muscles.
It’s the perfect gift for an aging couple or folks with physical disabilities who are finding aches and pains are holding their love life back. That’s not to say that young, athletic couples wouldn’t benefit from the new positions made possible by this wedge. Wedges are kind of a life-changer.
The foam wedge is covered in a soft, removable cover that is both waterproof and machine-washable. It comes in red and platinum.
Made from stretchy TPR, this double cock ring can help increase pleasure for all parties and the dual-ring design means it can be worn in a wide variety of ways so you can suit the fit to your comfort.
Most rings are very straightforward. It’s a ring and you slip it on. This dual ring means it can be applied like that the larger or smaller ring can be wrapped around the balls.
This is quite stretchy making it easy to put on and more comfortable. With the smallest ring at about half an inch in diameter and the larger one at 1.25 inches in diameter, and because of its pliable stretch, this ring should fit most equipment.
Cock rings are said to help to improve erection size, increase hardness, and help you last longer. It’s a fun couple’s gift they’ll both enjoy.
Whether they already love rabbit vibes or maybe the traditional rabbit has never done it for them, they’ll be very interested in giving this nontraditional Austra version a shot.
Instead of two vibrating ends, the Austra has an external suction nub and rotating beads on the internal portion to replicate more realistic finger movements on their g-spot. The moving beads turn in four different patterns and intensities and the suction bit has seven different modes.
The insertable portion is body-safe silicone and is rechargeable.
Massage candles melt into wax that can be used as a hot, sensual massage oil and this one has the benefit of being flavored and edible, so there’s no place you can’t put your mouth after using it.
It’s made in France and comes in a round black box ready for gifting. The candle is in a ceramic pot with divots to make holding it more secure and a spout for fewer spills when pouring.
The Njoy Pure is the holy grail of g-spot orgasms and a welcome gift for anyone with a g-spot.
Made with medical-grade stainless steel the Pure is perfectly shaped for getting exactly the right pressure in exactly the right spots for g-spot stimulation. It has a reputation for being the toy to get when you want to achieve squirting or female ejaculation. It’s that good.
It’s great for p-spot stimulation as well so it’s anal safe.
The wand isn’t as big as it looks on screen. It’s only about 7.5 inches long with a narrow bulb on one end and a wider one on the other. (Both are usable.) It’s hefty but part of why it works is its dense weight.
This is an amazing gift for anyone who wants to have more, or maybe their first, internal orgasms. You can also consider a G spot vibrator if vibes are more their style.
We've gathered the 50 best sexy gifts to spice things up in 2023. There's something for every risque level as well as etiquette tips for giving sexy gifts.
