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The Bluetooth vibrator is the latest in making toys even more customizable and interactive. They’re perfect sex toys for long distance play to connect with someone across the world, take or give the control to a partner during a play session, and have the ease of controlling your own fun right from your smartphone.
We’ve collected the best Bluetooth vibrators and broken them down into pros and cons so you can find the one that best suits you.
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1. Chorus for Couples by We-Vibe
Price: $209.90Pros:- Can be controlled across the world using the app
- Can be worn during penetrative sex for extra clitoral stimulation
- The toy shape is adjustable to fit your body
- Body-safe silicone
- 100 percent waterproof
- Includes magnetic charging dock and cover
- Each vibration motor can be controlled separately
- Custom vibration patterns and music mode
- Great hands-free vibrator for solo play
- Also comes with a remote for local use
Cons:- Takes some trial and error when using for intercourse
- Internal vibration is weak
- Can't use music mode internationally
The We-Vibe Chorus can be used for solo-sessions or with your partner as a wearable vibrator to provide extra internal and external stimulation during penetrative sex.
Wearable vibes like this aren’t new but the Chorus has made a big improvement: it’s bendable. While most of the toys in this design are flexible, they have set shape that doesn’t fit all body types.
The Chorus is poseable. You can bend it and the toy will hold its shape meaning you can make it wider, tighter, or anything in between to match your particular body shape and reach all the right spots.
The customization doesn’t stop there–you can adjust the strength and vibration patterns of the Chorus’s two motors independently in realtime on the We-Connect app. There is a motor in both ends of the toy, one for the external clitoral arm and one for the internal g-spot arm. The vibrations on the external arm are significantly better than the internal one, but the external is really where it counts so the just-okay internal vibe doesn’t bother me.
Chorus is controllable manually using the buttons the top of the toy, with an included remote control, and by using the We-Connect app which unlocks many new vibration patterns, customizable patterns, and a music mode so your toy pulses to the beat. Your partner across the world can control the We-Vibe remotely using the We-Connect app as well as use the app’s chat, voice call, and video call functions, making it the perfect long-distance relationship app.
For use as a couple’s toy, don’t get discouraged if it isn’t fireworks on your first go. Communicate with your partner so you can make some adjustments and test it out again. Because it’s so customizable, it’s natural that you’ll need to experiment to find the settings and shape that you both love.
As a solo toy, this is a lot of fun because it’s completely hands-free. Set the Chorus in place and then your hands are free to play with the app or anything (or anyone) else you like to touch while you’re getting off. I also like that the remote has a squeeze-control function so if you’re too distracted to figure out the buttons, just squeeze the remote and the harder you squeeze the stronger the vibrations will get.
I love that it’s 100 percent waterproof. You can actually bring this toy into the bathtub if you wanted. It comes with a magnetic charging dock that also holds your remote control. The dock has a sleek cover that is discreet enough to leave out on your nightstand with no one the wiser.
Toys in this style make for great long distance relationship gifts because you can use them while apart and together.
Find more We-Vibe Sync for Couples information and reviews here.
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2. Ida Wave Dual Stimulator by Lelo
Price: $189.00Pros:- Two types of stimulation
- Can be controlled across the globe
- Waterproof and rechargeable
- Body safe silicone
Cons:- Not magnetically charged
- Some trial and error to get it right
- Not everyone will love the stroking motion
Lelo’s Ida Wave is designed to rock your world by combining two different sensations in just the right way. The insertable portion has a moving nub on the end that rotates, almost like those shiatsu massage rollers, to stimulate your G spot directly. The exterior portion curves up over your pelvis for vibrating external stimulation.
There are 10 pre-programmed patterns loaded into the toy but once you get set up in the app, you unlock a huge amount of control of both ends of the toy to tailor your experience to exactly what you need to build that slow O just how you like it. Or, a partner across the globe can take control of the Ida Wave, and now your solo session is a lot less solo.
I like that the toy is rechargeable with a two-hour battery life. The toy is described as fully waterproof, but it uses the long rod-type charging cord that inserts into the toy (not my favorite) so I don’t view that toy as entirely sealed against water.
Find more Ida Wave Dual Stimulator by Lelo information and reviews here.
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3. OhMiBod’s Esca 2 by Kiiroo
Price: $119.00Pros:- Can be controlled through apps tablet or smartphone
- Rechargeable
- Unlimited vibration patterns
- Can vibrate to sounds like music
- Reliable connectivity
- Light indicates power and pattern visually
- Perfect for long-distance relationships and cam work
- Works with OhMiBod and FeelConnect app
- Can get both buzzy vibrations and deeper thrums
- A little big but still wearable
Cons:- Not for anal play
- Not waterproof
- No color choices
New out this year, the Esca 2 is one of the top interactive sex toys on the market.
The Esca 2 can be controlled in three different ways: manually from a button on the thin antennae end, from the OhMiBod app, or from the Feel Connect app. Manual control is always nice to have for a quick session on your own but these two app options open up a world of possibilities–literally because the Esca can be controlled by a partner across the globe.
First things first, the Esca 2 is a bullet-style vibe with a soft, flexible tail with an LED indicator. The light indicates mode change and battery levels, but more importantly, it reflects the activity of the vibe.
It gets brighter as the vibrations get stronger and flickers to the pulsations of different modes. This light creates a visual representation of the vibrations so the person controlling the toy can see, either in person or over a cam, exactly what they’re doing to you.
The body is smooth silicone with a harder, plastic tip on the end of the tail. It’s great for external and vaginal stimulation but it’s not safe for anal play.
In manual mode, you have access to four different vibration cycles but once you’ve paired your toy with the OhMiBod app you unlock nearly limitless possibilities. The app has a long list of pre-set patterns to try out with great variety in both intensity and depth from high buzzy vibrations to those deep thrumming vibes.
In tap and touch modes you can control the duration and intensity by tapping or drawing on your screen which gives you (or your partner) complete control over the vibration.
One thing that OhMiBod has into for years is toys that are responsive to sounds and the Esca 2 doesn’t disappoint. You can set it to sound mode on the OhMiBod app and the vibe will buzz to the rhythm of your music or the sound of your lover’s voice. What’s new with the Esca is that you can now control how oh sensitive to sound you want the toy to be and how strong the vibrations start out at.
Low sensitivity is great for being out at a loud club with this little beauty hidden in your pants. High sensitivity is perfect for synching up to vibrate at the sound of tips when doing cam work.
You can connect to partners through secure accounts on the OhMiBod app and use Feel Connect to create personal codes to send to other users for a one-on-one experience.
Lastly, the OhMiBod has a tracking option so you can track your orgasms, set orgasm goals, and even track them over time. It’s a fun little perk with a punny name: the Oh!Dometer.
Find more OhMiBod's Esca 2 by Kiiroo information and reviews here.
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4. F1s Developer’s Kit by Lelo
Price: $199.99Pros:- Controlled by app on your smartphone
- Control can be handed to partner across the globe
- Uses vibrations and sonic stimulation
- Rechargeable
- Body-safe silicone
- Completely new sensation
- Compatible with VR and AR programs
- Viewing window
- Neutral opening
Cons:- Not a typical sleeve toy
- Not for everyone
- App could be better
For those looking for a sleeve toy that’s unlike anything you’ve ever felt before, check out Lelo’s F1s. It’s not your standard stroker. In fact, you don’t move it at all–the F1s does all the moving for you.
The body-safe silicone interior looks a little like a speaker and for good reason. The toy uses both vibration and sonic stimulation to create waves of pleasure like no sleeve you’ve ever played with.
The strength and functions can be controlled via Bluetooth with an app on your smartphone. This also means that you can hand over control of your pleasure to someone anywhere in the world making it great for long-distance partners. It’s also compatible with available VR and AR programs for an integrated high-tech solo session.
I like that it has a viewing window and a long-lasting rechargeable battery. The app also tracks your sessions so you can learn more about what you tend to like.
Find more F1s Developer's Kit by Lelo information and reviews here.
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5. Cowgirl App-Controlled Ride-On Vibrator
Price: $1,800.00Pros:- Like nothing else you've tried
- Unmatched power
- Vibration and rotation functions
- Two silicone attachments
- Controled by handheld remote or smartphone
- Six vibration functions
- Adjustable firmness of insertable attachment
Cons:- Not for long-distance control
- Pricier than others
- Too much vibration power for some
For a completely out-of-this-world experience that blows every other vibrator out of the water, consider a ride-on vibrator like the Cowgirl. This sit-on vibrator has more power than you can imagine and, due to its size, has some of the deepest, rumbliest, and most thrumming vibrations that will buzz throughout your entire body.
The Cowgirl is meant to be ridden, think cowgirl position, and has two silicone interchangeable attachments. One has a textured strip and a raised, soft nub for grinding. The other has a nub for grinding as well as a four-inch insertable dong which can be used alone or with the included metal rod extra-firmness.
That rod is key for use the Cowgirls rotation function. If you love the idea of rotation toys but they always just ending going to slow when they encounter any resistance, then this will blow your mind. Cowgirl has the power you need for true 360-degree rotation.
But we’re all here for the vibration and Cowgirl delivers. This thing packs a serious punch on a design that is known for orgasm after orgasm even for people who don’t often achieve multiples. There are six patterns of vibration and variable speeds controlled by either the wired handheld remote (which also includes a dial for rotation) or it can be controlled with the Cowgirl app. It’s not for across the world play, uncomfortably, as the app can only connect up to 30 feet away.
I’ll acknowledge that this isn’t for everyone. It’s too big to fit in your underwear drawer for one and it’s going to be louder than most handheld toys, but for those seeking a truly wild experience, treat yourself with the Cowgirl.
Find more Cowgirl App-Controlled Ride-On Vibrator information and reviews here.
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6. Moxie Bluetooth Panty Vibrator by We-Vibe
Price: $103.20Pros:- Magnet holds the toy in place in your panties
- Vibration and patterns are endlessly customizable
- Great for some public fun
- 100 percent waterproof silicone
- Includes magnetic charging cord and remote control
- App has tons of customizable vibration patterns
- Comes with an extra magnet just in case
- Quiet
Cons:- No music mode
- Not powerful enough for everyone
- Remote has limited range
If you’re looking for a wearable panty vibe that can be controlled wirelessly, you need the Moxie by We-Vibe.
This little teal toy might not look like much, but it’s perfectly designed for what it does. Moxie slips into your panties for some serious but discreet clitoral stimulation. The body of the toy sits on the inside of your panties (or inside the liner pocket) and the round, flat Moxie magnet sits on the outside of your panties to hold the toy in place.
Anyone who’s done it, myself included, can tell you that being in public wearing a toy that really needs to be adjusted is not that much fun so this magnet idea is genius. Now we can throw our wearable toys covered in tangled straps right in the trash.
Moxie can be controlled by the single button on the toy itself, by an included remote control with limited range, or the We-Connect app with unlimited range. The app unlocks a wide range of vibration pre-sets that you can customize simply by dragging your finger up and down to adjust the intensity. You can also create your own custom patterns and save them for later.
The remote is perfect for going out on a date night with your partner and We-Connect allows you to connect with your partner on the other side of the globe and let them control your toy while they watch via video chat.
The Moxie is 100 percent waterproof so this can go with you anywhere and is very easy to clean. It’s covered in body-safe silicone with a rounded clitoral nub for directed vibration and a grooved area by the vaginal opening for that little extra oomph. It charges with an included magnetic cord and one charge is good for about two hours of use.
For toys that you plan on taking out of the bedroom, noise-level is key. The Moxie is a very quiet toy. When held next to a decibel meter, it stays mainly in the 30 to 40-decibel range and tops out in the 50-decibel range at its highest power. According to the Decibel Comparison Chart from Yale University, the hum from your refrigerator is around 55 decibels. For the power it packs, the sound level is impressive.
Find more Moxie Bluetooth Panty Vibrator by We-Vibe information and reviews here.
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7. Verge Remote Control Vibrating Ring by We-Vibe
Price: $119.00Pros:- Can be controlled long distance
- Fun textured side
- Can create custom patterns
- Two-hour battery life
- Rechargeable
Cons:- Not 100% perfect for all body shapes
- No color choices
- More geared for partner play, not solo
If you’re looking for a cock ring for some fun couples play, check out the Verge with realtime custom vibration patterns and music reactivity.
The toy is made of food-grade silicone, is USB rechargeable, and is nice and stretchy for a comfortable fit. It’s smooth on one side and textured on the other so you can switch up the sensations. You can wear it in several different configurations but two popular ones are with the textured nubs facing down and pressing against the wearer or the ring sitting on top with the tip facing away from the wearer to stimulate your partner.
It uses a magnetic charger which makes the toy about as waterproof as toys go. This should be fine for showers and bathtime, as well as really easy cleaning.
Speaking of vibrations, you have endless possibilities for controlling the buzz on this thing. I’ve used the We-Connect app myself and I’m always so impressed by all the possibilities. Using the free app you can choose pre-set patterns, create your own, or even control the vibrations in real time by drawing on your screen. On music mode, the ring will vibrate to the beat and volume of music as well as the sounds of the room meaning you can have voice control over the vibrations.
Find more Remote Control Vibrating Ring information and reviews here.
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8. Span Panty Vibe by Love Distance
Price: $179.95Pros:- Pronounced curve for more contact
- Can be controlled across the world
- Water-resistant
- Comes with panties
- Silicone
Cons:- Battery life could be longer
- Not the best connectivity
- Kind of loud
For another take on the panty vibrator check out Span Panty Vibe by Love Distance which can be controlled locally via Bluetooth or controlled globally via WiFi.
This panty vibe is curved to suit your body and sit comfortably in your underwear so you can wearing it around the house, sitting at your computer, or even outside the home. It’s controlled by the free Love Distance app where you or your long distance (or local) partner can play with a variety of pre-loaded patterns.
It comes with a one-size-fits-most lacy panty but the toy will fit in most open gusset underwear.
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9. Zalo Queen Pulsing G-Spot, Air Pleasure & Warming Toy
Pros:- Can be controlled by app or manually
- Pulsing G-spot stimulation
- Warming and vibrations functions
- Air pleasure attachment
- Luxe design
- Magnetically charging
- Body-safe silicone
Cons:- Not 100 percent waterproof
- App not for long-distance
- Tapping feelings isn't for everyone
For those looking for a wide range of sensations and aren’t satisfied with simple, traditional vibrations, you need to see all that the Zalo Queen has to offer.
First off, it’s gorgeous. They really make its form as crucial as function with this toy. I love the sleek lines accented by the gold-colored asp at the base with a crystal set into its head.
On to the fun stuff. As well as eight vibration functions, the Zalo Queen has a pulsation node on the tip of the toy. I have a similar toy and it’s a very unique tapping sensation that’s amazing for G-spot stimulation. There are eight pulse functions to choose from.
It’s also a warming toy and can heat up to 107 degrees Fahrenheit for a more realistic and natural feeling. For reference, hot bath water is generally around 112 degrees Fahrenheit.
Another neat feature is that this toy transforms into an air pleasure toy by slipping the included silicone sleeve over the body of the toy. With the sleeve in place, the tapping node creates suction for a mind-blowing clitoral toy.
The Zalo Queen uses Bluetooth to connect to the Zalo app so you can control the functions right from your smartphone.
Find more Zalo Queen Pulsing G-Spot & Air Pleassure Toy information and reviews here.
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10. Nora Bluetooth Rabbit Vibe by Lovense
Pros:- User friendly for local and long-distance
- Magnetic charging so it's splashproof
- Can control internal and external stim separately
- Rotating G-spot stimulator
- Great control over vibe strength
- Can create your own patterns
- Body-friendly silicone
Cons:- It's not silent
- Pink isn't everyone's favorite color
- Magnetic charging point needs a stronger magnet
For those who have ever wanted to customize their rabbit vibe, check out the Nora by Lovense. You can personalize your own vibration patterns and, through the app, a partner can also control the toy either locally or long-distance.
This silicone rabbit vibrator has a vibrating external arm and rotating internal shaft which can both be controlled individually through the Lovense app. Lovense sent me a media sample of this toy with no promise of a review at all and I can tell you I’m impressed with the precise control you can get using the app.
The toy is self is made of body-friendly silicone, charges magnetically, and is splash-proof. It’s a good not-too-bit and not-too-small size and the vibrating arm is soft and flexible.
It can be controlled with limited power levels using the buttons on the base but the real fun happens when you sync up the toy to your phone. In my experience, it synched easily and automatically so it was very little work on my part to get it going.
In the app there are a couple of different ways you can adjust the power of either stimulation by raising the levels of steady vibration up and down along a range or on a different screen you can draw patterns with your finger creating waves and pulses. This was my favorite part of the toy because you can even loop these patterns so that when you draw them once the toy will repeat them.
There are preset vibration functions but trust me, you’ll have a lot of fun experimenting with making your own.
As much as a love a G-spot vibe, the choice of a rotating head was really clever because you have the contrast of the vibrating external arm and this different sensation internally and that way they don’t all blend into one. It’s overwhelming in the best of ways. I would call the vibrations about in the middle of the buzzy to thrummy vibrations scale, maybe slightly on the thrummy side.
Find more Nora Bluetooth Rabbit Vibe by Lovense information and reviews here.
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11. Svakom Ella App-Controlled Egg Vibrator
Price: $99.99Pros:- 10 vibration functions
- Can be controled via Svakom app
- Body-safe silicone
- Rechargeable
- Splash-proof
- Controls on egg and cord as well
- Ultra-quiet
Cons:- Too small for some
- Not for long-distance control
- Not strong enough for some
Egg vibrators like the Ella by Svakom are great candidates for Bluetooth control since they’re intended to be inserted into the vagina–similar to a kegel exerciser but more fun.
The Ella can be controlled by the Svakom app which is the most convenient and hands-free option, as well as by a button on the egg itself or a button on the cord. It’s nice to have options.
Speaking of, the egg vibe has 10 vibration functions as well as a “climax mode” which ramps up the power for a fireworks-worthy finish.
Ella is rechargeable with two hours of battery life and is splash-proof. It doesn’t use wireless charging so I don’t feel comfortable saying it’s 100 percent waterproof.
Find more Svakom Ella App-Controlled Egg Vibrator information and reviews here.
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12. Crescendo by MysteryVibe
Pros:- Articulated to bend to your preference
- Wireless recharging
- Six individually controlled motors
- 100 percent waterproof
- Can be controled by an app
- You can program your own vibration patterns
- Great for any body shape and all genders
- Silicone
Cons:- No app for long-distance use yet
- Vibrations are mid-range
- Not for anal play
The Crescendo is one of the only vibrators out there to be fully positionable essentially making it into several toys at once.
It can be a straight line, curl into a circle, and every combination in between. Every body is different with different needs and this toy is designed to please them all.
That’s not an easy task to create a toy that can be both a rabbit vibe, g-spot vibe, and masturbation sleeve all in one. To create these C, L, and O shapes, there is an articulated bend between each of the vibration motors.
Oh, did I mention it has six motors? Six. There are no dead zones on this thing. The vibration runs the full length of it. It’s unlike anything you’ve owned before.
It’s also highly adjustable so if that sounds intimidating, you can adjust the vibration in completely unlimited ways. Using the MysteryVibe app you can explore the wide range of pre-set patterns available and create your own.
When programing your own vibrations, you have control over each motor for endless possibilities. This is great on a practical level because if you’re using the Crescendo manually, you’ll want to shut off the vibrations on the end you’re holding to keep your hand from going numb. And it’s great on a creative level because there’s no pattern you can’t create.
The Bluetooth on the Crescendo gives your partner full control over the vibration for pleasing and teasing. It works on a 30-foot radius so this is a toy to play with on your own or with a partner in the same home as you. There is an international app in development but it’s not out yet.
It’s 100 percent waterproof for shower and bath as the body-safe silicone has no openings in it at all. The vibe charges using conductive charging and comes with its own charging station. When it’s low on energy you just place the wider end on the charging pad and wait.
This is a fairly smooth vibe with a narrow end and a wider end with two fins. These small outcroppings are designed to give some variety in how the vibrations are transferred. They are great for precise surface stimulation.
With its ability to transform itself into different shapes for g-spot, clitoral, and penis stimulation, this is a toy that should cost way more than it does.
I also featured this toy in my best G spot vibrator toys.
Find more Crescendo by MysteryVibe information and reviews here.
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13. Vector Prostate Massager by We-Vibe
Price: $139.00Pros:- Vibration strength and pattern controlled by app
- Can create custom vibration patterns
- Can be controlled by remote or app worldwide
- Can adjust the angles
- Two motors
- Rechargeable
- Waterproof
- Body-safe silicone
Cons:- Can't be boiled
- No color choices
- Need to use their charger
For a Bluetooth prostate vibrator, check out Vector by We-Vibe which is adjustable and can be controlled remotely either locally or across the globe. I love that the angle of the toy can be adjusted to fit your particular body.
There are two vibration motors: one in the tip for prostate massage and one in the base to stimulate the perineum. This toy has 10 different vibration functions which can be controlled manually with the included remote up to 30 feet away or from across the globe with the downloadable app. You can also create custom vibration patterns in the app making the possibilities endless.
Prostate health is important for everyone who has one. According to a Men’s Health article on “6 Reasons Why You Might Want to Try a Prostate Massage” during a study, people with prostates were 34 percent less likely to develop prostate cancer when then they had five or more orgasms a week and many believe the prostate stimulation plays a role in this as well. So have fun for your health.
The toy is rechargeable, made body-friendly silicone, and is 100 percent waterproof so it’s safe to bring into the bathtub.
Do Remote Control Vibrators Really Work?
The most accurate answer I can give you is: Yes, as much as any Bluetooth device works.
All Bluetooth devices are going to have some connection hiccups and that's been the case with all the Bluetooth sex toys I own--the same as all the Bluetooth headphones I use. For the most part, they connect just fine.
What Are the Benefits of Bluetooth Sex Toys.
Being able to control your toys through an app unlocks a level of control and customization you could never get from buttons. With many of these toys you can choose precisely the right strength from a sliding scale and access a wide range of patterns.
My favorite perk is that you can create your own patterns for many of these toys. You know what your body likes and now you can build the perfect vibration pattern for you.
And that's all just for solo play. Remote control of your vibe means you can really spice up your chats with a long-distance partner.
And with a remote-controlled toy, the kinky possibilities are endless.
How Can I Use Them Safely?
- Using condoms and other appropriate protection when sharing with partners you're not fluid-bonded with.
- If a toy doesn't have a flared base, keep it out of your butt.
- Only use water-based lubes on silicone.
- Wash toys after every use per their care instructions.
For more health and safety issues you can check out these articles on from U.S. Health News and the NHS.
A note on gender and language.
In this article, I am using the medical terms for our sexy bits for clarity's sake, but please replace them with whatever terms you use for your body parts. As a gender-expansive person myself I understand how important the language we use is.
Sex toys aren't gendered. Play safe and have fun.