13 Best Sex Chairs & Furniture to Fulfill Your Fantasies

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Sex chairs and other supportive or bondage furniture can spice up your love life in ways few other toys can. There’s no substitute for the angles, comfort, ease, or bondage a solid sex chair can bring. For more bondage buys check out under bed restraints or my guide on how to build your own Red Room of Pain.

What Are the Best Sex Furniture Products?

Woman in purple lingerie on black adult positioning stool
  • Versatile
  • Affordable
  • Better bounce
Price: $89.99 Shop now at Love Honey Shop now Read our review
Black Liberator chaise lounge Amazon Customer Reviews
  • Can pass for furniture
  • Available with bondage tie down or without
  • Makes positions more comfortable
Price: $419.99 Shop at Amazon Shop now Read our review
Black BDSM bondage chair Amazon Customer Reviews
  • Intimidating
  • Upright and flat positions
  • Very adjustable
Price: $775.19 Shop at Amazon Shop now Read our review
Two black position enhancer chairs, one with a hole in the seat
  • No assembly required
  • Two seats to play with
  • Sturdy metal frame
Price: $274.99 Shop now at Love Honey Shop now Read our review
Black Liberator Obeir spanking bench
  • Aid for bondage and spanking positions
  • Trusted brand
  • Includes four detachable cuffs
Price: $249.00 Shop now at Adam & Eve Shop now Read our review
Black ride on rocking chair for adults
  • Perfect for solo play
  • 440-pound weight limit
  • Includes toy adapter
Price: $299.99 Shop now at EdenFantasys Shop now Read our review
Black position wedge with handcuffs
  • Easy to store
  • Six bondage tie-down points
  • Makes positions more comfortable
Price: $59.99 Shop now at Love Honey Shop now Read our review
Red and black octopus chairs Amazon Customer Reviews
  • Very stable for rough use
  • Perfect for doctor kinks
  • Six colors to choose from
Price: $998.60 Shop at Amazon Shop now Read our review
Folding bondage board with woman
  • Folds for storage and travel
  • 18 tie-down points
  • Nearly any position imaginable
Price: $499.95 Shop now at Adam & Eve Shop now Read our review
navy blue inflatable position pillow
  • Inflatable and easy to store
  • Washable cover
  • Position pillow and toy holder stool
Price: $14.99 Shop now at EdenFantasys Shop now Read our review
Black Sybian-style machine
  • Mindblowing vibrations
  • App enabled
  • Comes with two attachments
Price: $1,500.00 Shop now at Adam & Eve Shop now Read our review
Dark navy Pillo position pillow
  • Can sit out in the open
  • Multi-purpose
  • Removable covers
Price: $95.00 Shop now at EdenFantasys Shop now Read our review
IntimiateRider and RiderMate Amazon Customer Reviews
  • Perfect for those with mobility issues
  • Folds flat for storage
  • Glides to create rocking motion
Price: $329.00 Shop at Amazon Shop now Read our review
Our Unbiased Reviews
  1. 1. Bondage Boutique Sex Chair

    Pros:
    • Takes strain off knees
    • Versatile
    • Good for partner and solo play
    • Opens up tons of positions
    • Affordable
    Cons:
    • Not as bondage friendly as others
    • Only holds 330 pounds
    • Doesn't fold flat

    This Bondage Boutique Positioning Chair is extremely versatile with dozens of positions made possible and more comfortable with this little stool. With your partner lying under the stool, you can bounce on them with the support of the stretchy seat straps. That takes some of the strain off your back and knees. Or one person can sit on the stool and the other lay on the floor for more comfortable oral sex. 

    You’re really only limited here by your imagination. It’s built to hold up to 330 pounds.

  2. 2. Liberator Esse Adjustable Lounger

    Pros:
    • Makes positioning more comfortable
    • Trusted brand
    • Can pass as furniture
    • Colors to choose from
    • Bolsters are adjustable
    • Moisture-proof lining is machine washable
    • Made in America
    • Also just a comfortable lounger
    • Available alone or with bondage tie downs
    Cons:
    • Too big to store out of sight
    • Bondage version is less subtle
    • Have to have room for a chaise

    The Liberator Esse is a comfortable lounger designed to allow you to have more comfortable, ergonomic sex in a wide range of positions. Plus I like that it could pass as normal furniture to most people and wouldn’t look totally out of place in your master bedroom. 

    The shape works with your body so you feel supported however you and your partner want to get down. It has a headrest and scoop bolster can be used or removed for different kinds of support.

    Esse’s removable covers have a moisture-proof lining and are machine-washable which will be pretty important. It comes in black, red, aubergine, and espresso.

  3. 3. Bondage Punishment Chair

    Pros:
    • Makes any room a dungeon
    • Will intimidate your sub
    • Adjustable
    • Eight points of restraint
    • Made of galvanized steel
    Cons:
    • Not easy to store
    • Too kinky for some
    • No weight limit given

    This Torture Rack Chair will make your sub weak at the knees when they see it. It’s very adaptable which I like. the leg supports can be raised and lowered and the distance from the chair can also be adjusted. You can remove the armbar if that suits your needs and the arm cuffs fit behind the headrest to become wrist restraints.

    The backrest can up in a relicned sitting position or lowered until it’s laying flat. To accommodate different heights, the backrest and be raised and lowered vertically and is available at 60 centimeters wide or 80 centimeters wide at no extra cost.

    The intimidating bondage chair has eight points of restraint: wrists, upper arms, knees, and two straps for the torso. Once they’re strapped in, they aren’t going anywhere leaving your sub vulnerable to whatever tortures you’ve agreed upon. 

    It’s made with galvanized steel with foam padding and easy-to-clean PU leather upholstery. The black color fits nicely into any kink decor. 

  4. 4. Dominix 2-Surface Position Enhancer Chair

    Pros:
    • Comes fully assembled
    • Two seat designs to play with
    • Easy-clean faux leather
    • Sturdy metal frame
    • Makes queening more comfortable
    • Four nylon tie-downs
    Cons:
    • Doesn't fold flat for storage
    • Not bouncy
    • Tie-downs look flimsy

    This Dominix Position Enhancer Chair is versatile with two interchangeable surfaces to play around with. The flat seat is great for positional support and as a spanking bench. The seat with a nine-inch diameter hole in the center is perfectly designed to aid in more comfortable queening and oral play.

    When the queening seat is installed, the standard flat seat fits into the bottom of the chair so the person lying under the chair has some padding to support their back. I love this feature. This seat also has four nylon tie-downs to be used as you please but keep in mind they don’t look sturdy enough to allow for significant pulling.

    This chair arrives fully assembled and all you need to do is insert the seat of your choice. This is great because I hate assembling furniture and that means that the metal frame is that much more secure because I know I wasn’t the one putting it together. 

    Each seat is padded for comfort and covered in easy-to-clean faux leather. Overall, the chair measures 12 inches tall, 15 inches wide, and 19 inches long.

  5. 5. Liberator Obeir Bondage Spanking Bench

    Pros:
    • Built for spanking and bondage
    • Position aid reduces strain on joints
    • Trusted brand
    • Removable microfiber cover
    • Four D-ring bondage tie-downs
    • Comes with four adjustbale cuffs
    Cons:
    • Foam my collapse too much for some
    • Need to have space to store it
    • Cover isn't waterproof

    If you’re looking for a bondage chair for spanking or flogging sessions, Liberator’s Obeir Spanking Bench is made for you. “Obeir” is French for “obey” so already we’re off to a great start.

    The Obeir is a sturdy, secure, yet comfortable base for all sorts of fun bondage play in sitting, standing, and prone positions. The two-surface chair measures 18 inches tall, 24.5 inches long, and 24 inches wide. It’s made up of high-density foam that’s soft but supportive. It’s never fun when a sub has to end a session because the position is putting too much strain on their knees or back and positioning aids like this help to prevent that discomfort in the first place so you both can focus on the sensations you’re going for.

    There are so many ways to use this from a kneeling bench to a bondage chair to a traditional wedge support pillow. It has a removable microfiber cover for easy cleaning and comes with four adjustable cuffs to attach to the four D-ring tie-down points. 

  6. 6. Ride-On Chair

    Pros:
    • Great for when you can't get the real thing
    • Real leather
    • Comes with toy and can fit others
    • Hands-free
    • Doesn't need electricity
    • Can hold up to 440 pounds
    Cons:
    • Not easy to hide
    • Included toy isn't silicone
    • Not for everyone

    If quarantine has you not getting the type of attention you deserve, this Ride-On Chair by EdenFantasys delivers hands-free thrusting action without the expense or noise of motorized thrusting machines. (Besides, those noisy options have been impossible to keep stock since lockdowns hit. Clearly you’re not alone in your cravings.)

    This chair is powered by the rocking of your body so move like you would when you’re on top and the mechanics of it move the attached toy in really satisfying ways. The thrusting is hands-free because you’ve got better things to do.

    It comes with a realistic TPE toy (not silicone so could be better but if you’re not sharing it, that’s not the end of the world). The toy has five inches of insertable length and a diameter of 1.5 inches. And if you’re not quite sure what that means, EdenFantasys has one of my favorite features of all time where you can view the item in Real Size by adjusting the size of the item to fit a scaled image held up to your screen like a US dollar and credit card. 

    It says the chair includes an adapter so you can attach your favorite toys but I’m not seeing images of what that looks like. 

    The chair is made with steel with leather upholster and can hold up to 440 pounds. 

  7. 7. Inflatable Bondage Sex Cushion Cuffs & Blindfold

    Pros:
    • Easy to deflate and store
    • Makes variety of positions more comfortable
    • Six bondage tie-down points
    • Comes with wrist cuffs and blindfold
    Cons:
    • No air pump included
    • Chance of springing a leak
    • You'll want to cover it

    If you love the idea of a large position wedge but don’t have room for a permanent one, consider this Inflatable Sex Cushion

    This wedge goes from flat enough to store anywhere to an inflated wedge measuring 24.5 inches by 13 inches by 35 inches. The shape is designed to lift your hips and support your back, opening up a world of sex positions that are more comfortable than ever.

    If you want to add a little bondage, the wedge has six tie-down points and comes with a pair of detachable handcuffs and a velvet-lined blindfold. Any cuffs that can clip onto D-rings should work with this wedge so you can really go wild with bondage positions.

    The only thing is it has a flocked surface for comfort that isn’t easy to clean so I recommend a moisture-proof sex throw.

  8. 8. Multifunction Octopus Chair

    Pros:
    • Perfect for medical kinks
    • Comes in six colors
    • Very stable
    • Discreet shipping
    Cons:
    • Too big for some
    • Doesn't fold down for storage
    • Needs assembly

    Play out all your doctor, bondage, and mad scientist fantasies with these Multifunction Octopus Chairs. They borrow from the design of gynecological exam chairs with the padded stirrups, but with an attached stool for the Dom and gripping handles for the person in the chair. 

    Another change from standard medical chairs is the fact that this chair has seven legs for increased stability allowing your sub to squirm or bounce around with less chance of the whole thing toppling over.

    It comes in a range of six colors to choose from including Classic BlackMetallic GoldBaby Pink, and Red–perfect for building a 50 Shades Red Room of Pain.

  9. 9. Strict Folding Restrait Board

    Pros:
    • Folds for easier storage or travel
    • Looks like luggage when folded
    • Huge range of possibilities
    • Sturdy real wood frame
    • 65 inches long
    • 18 tie-down points
    • Easy-clean faux leather
    Cons:
    • Doesn't come with cuffs or chains
    • Not large enough to fit entire body for tall folks
    • Weigh 28 pounds

    The Strict Bondage Board is a folding platform with 18 D-ring tie-down points that can transform any surface into a dungeon slab and when you’re done it folds back up and can slip back into the closet or under the bed.

    With eight buckles on either side and one on the top and bottom, there are countless position possibilities once you add in your own wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and thigh cuffs. Want your sub pinned on all fours or bent in half? This can do both.

    With the addition of short lengths of chain, you can even create the 3D shapes shown in the images above by attaching the board to itself. Your flat bondage surface becomes a spanking chair or supportive wedge to bend a submissive over for all sorts of play.

    It’s plenty sturdy with real wood boards that are covered with high-density foam to protect hands and knees. The faux-leather cover is easy to clean which is essential. 

    When you’re done playing, the board folds closed, latches shut, and is small enough to be tucked away. It can pass as luggage or a briefcase even if anyone were to spot it.

    Unfolded it measures 24 inches wide, 65 inches long, and 2.5 inches tall.

  10. 10. Oomph Bump Inflatable Multi-Purpose Cushion

    Pros:
    • Can deflate and store flat
    • Works as a positioning wedge
    • Slot to hold vibe or other toys
    • Washable cover
    • You could maybe pass it off as a bolster pillow
    • Can adjust firmness
    Cons:
    • Inflatables have seams
    • Not as sturdy as solid cushion
    • No color choices

    This Oomph Bump Inflatable Cushion is good for solo and partner play because you can use it in a variety of ways. In addition to it being a regular, run-of-the-mill cushion you could use as a leg pillow (when partially inflated) or reading pillow, it also works as a positioning wedge to lift the hips while supporting your back. It makes the positions that can put a strain on your back and knees more comfortable. 

    It also has a hole on top of it where you can insert a vibe or other toy and you can use it as a mountable chair or stand it up on its side flat against the headboard. 

    Being inflatable means this cushion is easy to store out of sight since you can deflate it to almost nothing. The soft flocked surface is washable and waterproof.

  11. 11. Cowgirl Sybian-Style Machine

    Pros:
    • Can be controlled up to 30 feet away
    • The most intense vibes
    • Includes two attachements
    • 400-pound weight limit
    • Attachments are body-friendly silicone
    • 10 vibration functions
    Cons:
    • Spendy
    • Harder to hide
    • Not silent
    • Too strong for some
    • Needs a wall outlet

    A Sybian-style chair like the Cowgirl is not for everyone. If you crave strong, deep, thrumming vibration that will leave you dizzy and feeling like you might have forgotten your zip code, then this is worth giving a second look at. Did I say strong? I’m saying it again. This is a 24-pound, metal-framed, wall outlet-powered machine. It will vibrate your socks off. How strong? You’re supposed to cap your play sessions at 15 minutes according to the manufacturer. That strong. 

    It comes with two different silicone attachments, one with internal stimulation and one without so there’s a little something for everyone. It has 10 vibration functions as well as many levels of intensity. I love that the Cowgirl is app-enabled so it can be controlled using a smartphone from up to 30 feet away. If you’re playing with your partner they can take the reins of your toy across the house. There’s also a wired remote for ease of adjustment with a 10-foot cord.

    The internal attachments can also take advantage of the Cowgirls rotation functions and the different stems included. Some stems are firmer and others have more give for a different feel depending on your preference.

    The Cowgirl is covered in easy-clean PU upholstery and is built to hold up to 400 pounds. It has a 10-foot cord that is modeled off high-end music equipment.

  12. 12. Pillo by Dame

    Pros:
    • Can remove the cover to wash
    • Doesn't look naughty
    • Can double as a lap or back cushion
    • Great for partner play
    • Super soft
    Cons:
    • Not as good for solo play
    • Pricey
    • No bondage element

    Pillo by Dame is another position aid that you can leave out and even use in front of others in a not-adult way. Pillo may be designed for intimate moments but it also works as a lap desk, side pillow, and back support. No one will think twice about seeing it in your bedroom. 

    It’s made of soft but supportive foam with a super-soft microsuede cover which is removable for easy cleaning. The gentle wedge shape is perfect for fitting under hips for a better angle or under your pelvis when you’re facedown to reduce strain on your lower back. 

  13. 13. The IntimateRider & RiderMate

    Pros:
    • Perfect for those with lower body weakness or paralysis
    • Easy to store flat
    • Mat for partner is available
    • Can build rhythm with little effort
    Cons:
    • Fabric isn't silent
    • Pricey
    • RiderMate is sold separately

    For those with mobility issues, the IntimateRider is a godsend and allows for those with limited motor function to create a fluid rocking motion with very little physical effort. 

    The weighed seat glides on bearings with the smallest movement so those with lower body weakness or paralysis can still build up a rhythm using their upper body for more satisfying intercourse.

    When not in use, the chair folds flat to be stored in a closet or under the bed. 

    The RiderMate is sold separately but links up perfectly with the IntimateRider for your partner to lay on at a matching height.

Who should buy sex furniture? 

Absolutely anyone who wants to, but there are certain folks who would benefit more than others. 

Furniture that is designed with getting down in mind is fantastic for people who find themselves frustrated, uncomfortable, or in pain with certain positions. This includes partnerships with a wide difference in body type or height and everyone as we age.

As we get older, our bodies are less happy to put up with the wild positions we used to love and certain furniture can adapt those positions to make them comfortable again.

People with physical disabilities should definitely give certain furniture aids a try. There are lots of expected and unexpected physical roadblocks that can show up in any situation when you're disabled and sex is no different. I have physical disabilities and I've run into my fair share of them. 

Positioning furniture can help take the strain off of your body and enable you to try positions you might not be able to otherwise. That could be something as simple as a cushion to support your spine and reduce your pain or something more involved like a sex bench to hold limbs in place. 

Disabled folks have been characterized as non-sexual in literature going all the way back to Greek myths. So show your partner a night they'll want to write a book about.

I'm looking for more bondage gear to build a dungeon.

Obedience benches and sex chairs are dungeon essentials and this list has great examples of sex furniture and additions that will turn normal furniture into bondage furniture. For more inspiration check out my guide to building your own red room of pain from the Fifty Shades franchise. 

Where do I store my sex bench or cushion?

That's the kicker with some of these items--they can be big. Which makes sense. If you're going to have two adults moving around on them, they can't be flimsy but that still creates issues when you have houseguests. 

If you absolutely need to be able to hide your furniture, stick with ones that are either inflatable so you can store them deflated, toys that can fold flat like swings, or wedge pillows that can pass as something else. 

For more substantial pieces you'll need a dedicated spot or be willing to stash them in a closet or other storage area. 

Make sure you're communicating any issues you're having with your doctor as pain during sex should always be checked out and certain medications can affect drive and/or enjoyment. 

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