Sex toys for long distance can help you connect with your partner when you’re not able to see them in person. No matter the reason for your current separation, being apart is tough but luckily we live in an age when technology with toys like the rise of the Bluetooth vibrator which can help improve the sex lives of partners even when they’re miles apart. As a nice bonus, these toys are great for solo fun as well. They’re a good pick for stimulating long distance relationship gifts too.
For a toy that you can use when you’re apart as well as when you’re able to meet in person, try out Chorus by We-Vibe. It’s controlled through the We-Vibe app which includes vibration control by you or your long-distance partner and built-in video chat.
The flexible shape is designed to be inserted with one vibrating end on the G-spot and the other resting against the clit. It can be used solo or worn during intercourse to increase clitoral stimulation.
I’ve used the We-Vibe app for other toys and find it to be user-friendly and with lots of room for customization of vibration strength and patterns. It can also vibe to music or voice.
The Esca2 stands out among Bluetooth bullet vibes because the antenna lights up to the pattern of the vibes which gives the viewer (in person or over video chat) a visual representation of the sensations their partner is having.
It’s a silicone G-spot bullet vibe that uses the OhMiBod app to control the vibrations. There’s even built-in chat and photo sharing in the OhMiBod app for all-in-one cyber sessions.
It’s not a sex toy, but you’re going to be doing more sexy video chats, consider getting a dedicated 4K Webcam to improve the quality of your video. Whatever came with your laptop is probably functional, but if you want to look real good, get a separate camera.
This one by Enther and MAXHUB delivers 4K images with stereo microphones for clearer sound. We all know how important good lighting is and this camera has lighting correction to make sure you’re looking your best in whatever position you find yourself in.
It’s plug and play so if you’re not tech-savvy you don’t have to worry about drivers are anything.
Another marvel of modern teledildonics (what a great word) is the Onyx+ by Kiiroo. Using the free app and Bluetooth, it can sync to your partner’s toy across the globe and uses haptic feedback to transmit your partner’s movements into your toy. It’s compatible with other Kiiroo brand toys.
In addition to connecting to your partner’s toy, it can also connect to Kiiroo enabled content whenever you get your preferred viewing content as well as through VR for even more immersive fun.
The toy itself has a series of 10 contracting rings controlled through the app or with the touch-sensitive pads on the side of the toy which control the speed and power without dealing with a bulky interface. It’s much quieter than you’d expect. It’s not silence, but it’s still pretty discreet. It’s rechargeable and has a more subtle some prefer over more overt toys.
The Moxie is wildly fun because it’s a small vibrator that you can wear around the house or even when you’re out with no one the wiser and it is controlled by an app on your smartphone–or an app on the smartphone of the person you’ve given permissions to. The possibilities are endless.
You could wear this and your partner could send you a little (or a lot) of buzz whenever they’re thinking about you. It’s a fun addition to texting or a sexy video chat.
Moxie is encased in body-safe silicone and charges magnetically so it’s completely waterproof. It stays in place with a corresponding flat magnet, so the vibe goes on the inside of your underwear and the magnet goes on the outside to keep it from slipping.
I got to test out a media sample of this toy and I was impressed with just how stable that little magnet holds the vibe. It didn’t move out of place or fall off even with walking. The vibes are a little bit buzzy, not surprising for the size, but still did the trick for someone with a strong preference for thrumming vibes. The standard, built-in functions are out of this world.
You can share control of the vibe with the We-Connect app. I’ve used this app and it’s easy to pair and use. The customization of the vibrations is out of this world. You can create your own patterns or have the toy vibrate to sounds like music or your voice.
It charges via magnetic induction making it fully sealed against water (it would need to be) so it’s a breeze to clean.
Let’s get sappy here and acknowledge that the largest erogenous zone for lots of folks is their brain. So while this won’t necessarily get you off, Bond Touch bracelets alert you to your partner thinking of you.
When you tap on one bracelet the other lights up in a color of your choice to alert the wearer that they’re being thought of. It can also be set to vibrate to catch their attention while going about their day.
Being away from your partner but seeing and physically feeling them think about you can really build up your connection and sexual tension for later video chats and when you reunite.
These are waterproof up to three feet and have a long battery life so they’re simple and comfortable to wear full-time.
In the world of remote sex, this is about as close as it gets to really giving it to your partner. The Hismith Premium Sex Machine can be controlled via an app from anywhere in the world.
The person with the machine sets it up to the desired position and the person with the app controls the thrusting so you can give them exactly what they’re missing. (Or deny them a little bit until they ask nicely. Whatever you’re into.)
Sex machines like this are generally thought of as strictly for dildos and they’re fantastic for that sort of play but you can also attach compatible stroker toys for hands-free sessions.
This uses toys that work with the Klicloc System and there are many toys that are specifically made to fit this machine. If you have toys that you already own and love, Hismith has adapters for suction cup dongs and even adapter kits to cover nearly any toy you can think of.
This Hismith is great because it’s extremely adjustable in position in stroke length. The telescoping legs adapt to a wide variety of angles as well as being tipped on one end. It’s easy to operate and includes eight built-in modes for the wireless remote control and the app gives even greater customization.
Looking for a more unique way to pleasure your partner across distances that isn’t vibration? Check out the Curvy 1 by Satisfyer. It’s an air pleasure toy so it uses an internal oscillation covered by silicone to create pulsing air movement creating suction. I’ve tried out several air pleasure toys and it’s really like no other toy you’ve ever tried and is closest in sensation to oral sex. The Curvy 1 also has a vibration function to intensify the experience even more.
It can be controlled by the buttons on the end or using the Satisfyer Connect app, allowing you to hand over controls to your long distance sweetie.
This is a fun, cheeky, but effective way for your partner to enjoy your D while you’re apart. The Clone-A-Willy Kit comes with everything you need to make a cast of your penis and turn that into a silicone dildo replica with a vibrator core.
As with any molding process, it can be a little tricky but I have seen the results in person and once you get it right, you can get really accurate results. So if they keep saying how much they miss you and your “attributes”, send them a care package they’ll truly enjoy.
Lush 3 is an insertable bullet vibe that is shaped perfectly to nestle up against your G-spot and can be controlled via Bluetooth and a smartphone locally or on the other side of the continent. This one is a favorite of cam workers making it a great choice for video chats with your S.O.
The Lush is a vaginally insertable toy with a wide range of vibrations to stimulate your G-spot or be used externally. It’s entirely waterproof and uses a magnetic charger. The magnet on the charging cord can be a little fiddly but I haven’t had a lot of trouble with my Lovense cords falling off when charging.
I’ve used Lovense’s app before and it’s both intuitive, user-friendly, and impressive with how much customization you can get. My Lovense toys synch well can vibe to music and voices as well as your own custom vibration patterns.
The app-controlled Melt by We-Vibe has a cult following. If you or your partner has a clit and hasn’t tried an air pleasure sucking toy, put this in your cart right now. I’ll wait.
Okay, air pleasure toys like the Melt mimic sensations of oral sex in a way that no other oral sex toys with their vibrating tongues have managed to nail. This isn’t hard, painful suction like some kind of pump, it’s soft puffs in and out that pulse with a gentle sucking sensation that will drive you wild. Treat yourself or your partner.
It can be controlled using the buttons on the toy or using We-Vibe’s app for greater customization of strength. Because it’s not really a vibrator it doesn’t have function patterns but I don’t miss them at all.
You can hand off control of the toy to a partner across the globe through the app so they can decide when and how strong you get your kicks.
It’s 100 percent waterproof and completely sealed in silicone because it charges with a magnetic cord that doesn’t need to plug into the toy. The battery life is impressive and you won’t have to charge it often at all.
If you’re into the idea of a panty vibe, consider the BlueMotion Nex|1 by OhMiBod. It has a more pronounced clit nub than most panty vibes which is appealing to folks who need a little extra contact.
It’s small and discrete so you can tuck it into your underwear and go about your day. We’re all on our phones all day anyway so no one will notice if you pull up the OhMiBod app and turn up the vibes. Using the app you can give the controls over to your partner across the globe and they can control exactly what you’re feeling.
It includes a specially designed thong to hold it in place but as a one-size-fits-most pair of underwear, the chances it fits you perfectly are not great. I wish this had a better solution to keeping the toy in place but the enhanced nub does a decent job if you’re wearing fitted panties.
The Nex|1 is USB rechargeable and comes pre-loaded with fun vibrations patterns.
Click through to see this PDX Male Dirty Talk combination dildo and stroker in its uncensored glory–plus it talks. Motion sensors detect your movement and trigger internal vibrations and a hot male voice to moan and say the dirtiest things you can think of.
It’s not exactly remote-controlled but chances are with distance there’s going to be a lot more alone time than video chatting so treat yourself to something to keep your solo sessions fun and interesting.
The faster the movements, the louder he gets. For those with roommates or thin walls, the volume is adjustable and there’s a headphone jack to keep things really quiet.
This has something for tops and bottoms. It has a six-inch insertable dong, realistic balls, and a round butt for an anal stroker. The speakers come out for easy cleaning and to recharge. Just keep in mind that the dirty talk is gendered to male-male sex.
Once you’ve got it just right, you can either control your own pleasure from your smartphone or give the controls over to your partner locally or across the globe. You may be on one side of the country, but your partner on the other side is controlling the strokes.
When your partner isn’t around you can use the FeelConnect app to sync your toy up to provided videos for an interactive watching experience.
The Alex Neo is rechargeable, latex-free, and like nothing you’ve ever tried.
Fans of anal play should check out the Vic Neo by Svakom, a Bluetooth-controlled, vibrating, silicone prostate.
Using the FeelConnect app you can control the vibrations right from your smartphone or invite your long-distance partner to control the vibrations on their phone. The app even allows you to connect to your long distance partner via video while they control the toy.
The toy has two motors, one in the tip for P-spot stimulation and another on the rounded tip of the base for your perineum. There are five levels of vibration strengths and seven vibration functions to play with.
The Nora Rabbit by Lovense allows for precision control of sensations both by yourself on solo-play mode but also by a long-distance partner using their app. Not only can a long-distance partner interact with your toy, if they have the Lovense Max 2 Male Sleeve the toys can actually interact with each other across the world. What gets done to one toy affects how the other toy behaves. That’s the future, baby.
This is a toy I got to test out, with no promise of a review, and I love how much control you have. Using the app, you can control the vibrating bullet in the rabbit portion and the internal rotation motor completely separately. You can play with the pre-made vibration settings on the app or you can make your own functions by creating a pattern on the app and looping it so you get the exact vibration you want how you want it.
It’s made of body-friendly silicone and recharges using a magnetic connection. The toy is splashproof but not submersible. The only thing I should note is that it’s not a whisper-quiet toy. I certainly wouldn’t call it loud, but, like all rotation toys, there is some sound while it’s working.
When the two of you can’t meet in person, a perfect replica of your vulva is better than any generic masturbation sleeve they can buy. With this Clone-A-Pussy Kit, you get everything needed to make a mold of your vulva, create a body-safe silicone replica and place that in the included stroker sleeve.
This would be a fun care package to get in the mail from your girl when you’re feeling pent up. Because molds can be a little finicky, the kit gives you enough powder for two tries. It’s made in Portland, Oregan which is not surprising for some reason.
Not being able to see your partner in person is tough. These 17 stimulating sex toys for long distance relationships will help you connect and feel closer.
