There’s no getting around it – divorce sucks. Even a small token of kindness will let your friend, co-worker, or family know they’re on your mind in these challenging times. Consider giving these gifts at a divorce party, on the divorcee’s first birthday after the split, or as a “just because” gift to cheer them up. Below, find our ultimate list of the top divorce gifts.
Adult coloring books can help relax people and lower blood pressure, which makes them perfect for anyone who needs to unwind and have a little “me time”. Even when she’s feeling low, this funny and affordable adult coloring book is perfect for relaxing at the end of the day, which is why our editors ranked it as their top choice.
Each page is single-sided, so she can easily remove the page and hang/frame her work. Each design features a swear-tactic quote that will help her blow off some steam. Toss in some fun scented colored pencils and you’ve got a complete gift that’s bound to brighten her day.
This hilarious coloring book is just one of many great gift ideas. If you’re on a budget, check out these inexpensive gifts for women for more ideas.
Whether the documents have already been signed or are about to be signed, this ‘Freshly Signed Divorce Papers’ candle is sure to bring a smile to the recent divorcee’s face. The candle is humorous yet soothing and reassuring, making it a practical gift for those who are in the earlier stages of divorce. Even if she’s feeling sad or overwhelmed, this funny candle is sure to make her smile. On lonely nights, the bright light casts a warm and comforting glow to lift her spirits. This candle is made in the USA.
Getting back on your feet after a divorce can be challenging, but this road map by Deb Purdy can be a great way to reinvent yourself. If a friend or family member is struggling, this book can make them feel stronger, happier and even more peaceful. From supporting the kids after a divorce to learning how to transform anger into joy and acceptance, there are timely tips for every stage. Purdy also speaks from personal experience, as she experienced similar struggles after the end of a 10-year marriage.
An appropriate read for anyone who’s going through a divorce or even contemplating one, it’s also a handy guide for other tough life situations such as family and friend breakups or getting fired.
The divorcee in your life might not be getting enough sleep, especially if they’re newly single. This Chunky Knit Blanket isn’t a cure for those breakup blues, but it’s plush and cozy and can boost sleep quality. Plus, it only comes in a single size, so your friend won’t feel uncomfortable unwrapping a large blanket for two. Each blanket weighs 10 pounds and can feel like a warm, gentle embrace. Even those who run hot at night will feel comfortable underneath the hand-knit breathable bamboo fleece.
Coping with a divorce can be a painful and sad experience, but this smudging kit offers numerous emotional and spiritual benefits. The set is a thoughtful investment for that friend or family member who wants to push away negative vibes. It’s a great way to welcome a positive new life chapter. Besides a white sage bundle, the kit features a palo santo incense stick and a gorgeous abalone smudge bowl.
For centuries, Native Americans and indigenous people have burned sage to promote wisdom and healing, and provide spiritual cleansing for spaces and people. The sage in this kit is sustainably grown to help conserve and replenish natural resources. In fact, you can pair this kit with one of our best eco-friendly yoga mats to create a thoughtful environmentally-conscious bundle.
In addition to the sage bundle, the JL Local kit also contains a stunning abalone bowl. Not only does it look magical, abalone healing is recommended for anyone struggling with emotional turmoil or rough patches in a relationship. Its soothing energy can protect and boost spirits.
If you’re shopping for a good book that can help her get through the early stages of building her new life, we recommend this book for friends, family members and anyone else you know who might be struggling. Author Abigail Trafford dishes out advice for women without children, as well as information that will be of interest to mothers, particularly regarding the economic effects of divorce on children’s lives.
This self-help book has proven very popular over the years, which is why it’s now in its third edition. If you know a woman who doesn’t know how to take the next steps in building her new life, this book is a thoughtful resource.
Journalling can be really helpful for someone going through a divorce. It gives them a place to put their thoughts in order, and plan for the future. The Panda Planner is a really nice gift to consider for those who are recently divorced, or still in the process of finalizing their divorce.
The Panda Planner stands out from the competition because it was designed using proven scientific strategies to improve productivity and happiness, which is exactly what you need during a turbulent time in your life. With sections to plan out a day, a week or even a whole month, this planner is a thoughtful, practical gift for any woman going through a major transition in her life. It also acts as a schedule, life planner, goal organizer and gratitude journal.
It’s a small but thoughtful gift for busy professionals, moms, entrepreneurs, students and anyone else who needs a dedicated space to organize their life and work out details. Looking for similar gift ideas? Browse more inexpensive gifts for women who have everything.
It only takes a few seconds to pull out an inspirational token from this attractive wooden box. Someone going through a divorce or difficult break-up might find the strength to face a new day after seeing coins with labels such as Wisdom, Patience, Love or Confidence. The tokens are also small enough to stick inside a purse, backpack or pocket for extra encouragement during the day.
Each box contains nine stamped metal coins with uplifting inscriptions. The words “Take What You Need” are etched into the lid, making this a gift that’s designed to last. Even after the toughest times have passed, these optimistic messages offer some much-needed inspiration for taking on exciting new challenges.
With rounded edges and a polished exterior, this wooden box makes a timeless gift for a friend in need. To find more gifts like this one, browse more best friend gifts for more thoughtful suggestions.
A fun gift for the avid coffee or tea-drinking divorcee, this funny mug is sure to make them chuckle. It’s also customized for a more personal touch to help them get through those tough days. The engraved message, “You Know Why Divorces Are So Expensive? They’re Worth It,” makes a great sentiment. The high-quality print won’t fade even if it’s washed frequently. This mug is also dishwasher and microwave safe for peace of mind. Choose between 11- and 15-ounce mugs.
A pun on the phrase “the end of an era”, this funny shirt is a great gift for anyone who was married for a long time and is just starting a new lease on life. Even better, most people won’t know what the shirt is referencing. It’s a lighthearted gift for anyone who is struggling to move on after a divorce or significant break-up.
This tee is made with a comfortable cotton and polyester blend, and suits most body types with its classic fit. It’s lightweight and machine washable. With multiple sizes for men and women, and many available colors, it’s a versatile gift for any recently divorced adult.
Finding light in those dark, challenging times just got a little easier with this set of natural aromatherapy candles. Each candle is made with premium aromatherapy oils and fresh, uplifting scents. The “Be Brave” candle smells like Madagascan vanilla, while “Be Strong” fills the room with hints of peppermint and eucalyptus. It’s hard not to feel better after lighting the “Be Happy” candle with strong notes of lavender.
Each candle is encased in a smooth black glass jar with gold lettering to instantly elevate any room. The words and designs are etched into the glass for longevity. You can make the gift more unique by personalizing your own message to life your friend’s spirits.
Although these candles aren’t very big, they burn slowly to last a long time. The combined burn time for all three candles is 45 hours. Even when the candles are finished, the jars can be reused as decorative trinkets to store jewelry and other small items.
These inspirational candles make a thoughtful gift for other occasions as well. You can give them as a housewarming gift or even a gift for a female boss.
Sometimes, divorce is sad. Other times, you’re ecstatic and joyful to finally be free from a bad relationship. If your friend falls into the latter category, this fun shirt will appeal to their boisterous nature. On the front is a message that says, “Rockin the Ex-Wife Life” to let everyone know she’s finally free. This merch also comes in men’s sizes, if you need a funny gift for a guy. The cotton blend feels soft and cozy against the skin and is machine washable for easy maintenance.
The Gift of Divorce by Dumari St. Angelo is a meaningful gift for friends and family members who are going through a divorce. It’s a heartfelt and relatable read based on the author’s own dissolved marriage. St. Angelo covers all stages of a divorce or breakup, from initial feelings of isolation and feeling overwhelmed, to learning how to refocus and move on.
Through her personal and intimate diary entries, St. Angelo reveals that she has discovered her self-worth and power. While the book is an especially meaningful read for women, it’s a worthwhile gift for divorced men as well.
This funny divorce gift is sure to bring a much-needed smile to the face of your sister, friend, or co-worker. Aside from its hilarious message, the grip stand serves a useful purpose for phones and tablets. The grip makes it easier to take photos, text, make calls and more. As an added bonus, it’s collapsible, so she can stick it in her purse or pocket when it’s not in use. The adhesive is strong enough to withstand being removed and repositioned on various devices.
The inside of this bracelet is inscribed with the message, “Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.” The bracelet cuffs are two sizes, and can be bent to better fit individual wrists. Aside from the hand-stamped message, the bracelet is made with durable stainless steel. As an added bonus, it arrives wrapped and ready to give as a gift.
Sometimes, a creative outlet like this coloring book is the best way to relieve stress. Maybe your divorced friend is uncomfortable sharing some of his or her thoughts out loud, or simply prefers the therapy of a coloring book. This book is suitable for all levels, and comes with illustrations for total beginners and those with more experience. There are 50 divorce-related insults on the inside, with patterns ranging from plants to animals to flowers.
Whether the recent divorcee in your life finds this mug humorous or inspirational (or a blend of both), its practicality and convenience makes the mug a meaningful and handy gift. Its insulated tumbler and stainless steel construction allows the mug to keep drinks hot or cold for hours. It’s also just as suitabled for alcoholic drinks as it is for non-alcoholic ones. The mug is sturdy enough so that it won’t shatter if it’s accidentally dropped on the floor.
Whether it’s your best friend, sister or another woman you’re equally close to, the ‘You’re My Person’ Necklace is a meaningful and visible reminder of your close bond. The necklace comes with an inspirational message that’s sure to lift her up when she needs it the most. The intertwined circles measure just under .5 inches and are attached to an 18-inch frame. The necklace arrives packaged and ready to gift.
This humorous sign, engraved with the message, “Who Needs A Man When You Have A Dog,” makes a thoughtful gift for the newly divorced man or woman in your life. The versatile sign can be hung on the wall or placed on the table or shelf. The wooden sign makes an especially thoughtful gift idea for the recently divorced dog lover as he or she moves into a new living space.
The ‘Finally Done’ divorce t-shirt is designed for men and women, and comes in an array of sizes and colors. The solid color shirts feature a blend of cotton and heather grey, or cotton and polyester blends. As an added bonus, they’re safe for the washer and dryer. Its classic fit makes it easy to pair this casual tee with jeans or even sweatpants.
When she’s in a challenging situation, the Warrior Necklace can offer strength and inspiration. It’s a reminder that she can overcome anything. From a recent divorce to a bad breakup, it’s a thoughtful way to make a statement in more than one way.
This necklace features an eye-catching 18-inch chain with a secure spring-ring clasp. The starburst pendant is set against stunning CZ stones, and pairs nicely with her favorite outfits for any occasion. In addition to being hypoallergenic, the materials won’t fade or tarnish.
A new dress can really make someone smile. Give her a dress now, and she’ll have something special in her closet for that day when she’s finally ready to get back out there.
We’re huge fans of this style, which looks great on every body type because of it’s elegant draping. It also comes in sizes that fit nearly every body type.
This Koh Koh dress comes in tons of colors, and ranges from a size S to 4X. This would be a great dress for a formal event, birthday, concert, or special date. If she’d like something even more daring, KOH KOH also makes a one-shoulder maxi dress that’s worth a look.
It’s no secret that divorce can be lonely and isolating. Author Megan Devine dives deep into the world of divorce and the accompanying feelings in ‘It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand’. Devine, a therapist who witnessed the tragic accidental death of a partner, writes about grief, loss and healing from both perspectives. After covering the initial stages of loss, Devine encourages readers to slowly return to a life that’s as happy and close to normal as possible. Instead of overcoming and burying the grief, Devine explores the advantages of living alongside it.
Whether he’s into coffee, tea or another type of beverage, the’King Of Whatever Is Left’ mug is sure to put a smile on his face as he sips. The mug holds 11 ounces of liquid and is made with a durable ceramic material that’s safe for the dishwasher and microwave. Whether he’s looking to replace some kitchen essentials that were left behind or he simply prefers to start over, this mug is a clever gift for new beginnings. Each mug arrives securely packaged and ready to give in a convenient gift box.
The Nature’s Blossom Herbal Tea Starter Kit not only serves as a distraction, it’s also a fun project for aspiring and experienced gardeners. This kit contains all the essentials for making herbal tea, from seeds such as mint, catnip and chamomile to planters, soil discs and plant markers. A step-by-step guide is included. You can give the kit as a housewarming gift for that newly divorced friend or family member in your life, or as a unique gift to cheer up a recent divorcee. Several other variations of this kit are available.
This three-piece Mario Badescu Spritz Mist & Glow Facial Spray Collection set features three refreshing and hydrating mist sprays. Divorce can take a physical toll, even on the skin. In addition to refreshing the skin, the sprays can provide a light glow after applying makeup. The Aloe, Chamomile and Lavender spray is particularly refreshing before bed, while the Aloe, Cucumber and Green Tea spray soothes and calms skin. A few spritzes of the Aloe, Herbs and Rosewater spray can help soften the skin during the day. The bottles can be stored in the fridge for a slight cooling effect.
Divorce can lead to loneliness and isolation. Facebook’s Portal is a handy way to keep in touch with friends and family, while also enjoying the convenience of built-in Alexa voice service. Portal makes a thoughtful gift choice for a friend going through the early stages of divorce, as well as for a divorcee who has moved into a new living space. The device comes with a built-in smart camera, and can be used to make calls (with support for up to six people at once), listen to music and more. Both the camera and microphone can be disabled for privacy if desired.
‘Something Gained: 7 Shifts to Be Stronger, Smarter & Happier After Divorce’ by Deb Purdy focuses on healing and moving forward following the aftermath of a painful and difficult divorce. While the book is particularly geared towards the emotional challenges post-divorce, it’s helpful for the various stages of divorce, even for those who have been divorced for awhile. From learning to peacefully co-exist with one another to formulating a plan for success moving forward, this book is a must for divorcees of any age.
Surprise the recent divorcee in your life with this humorous party decorations kit. From balloons in assorted colors to a divorcee stash, the kit includes all the essentials for a post-divorce party. As she celebrates her new freedom and fresh start in life, she’ll surely smile when she looks up and sees the “I Do, I Did, I’m Done!” banner.
In some cases, a little bit of encouragement and a creative outlet for her feelings can be just what a recent divorcee needs. This prompt journal offers a secure and confidential space to express her most personal thoughts and feelings. Aside from venting, she can use the journal for closure as well as comfort and release. The journal is available in paperback and Kindle formats.
There's nothing easy about divorce. From a new divorcee to a divorced friend or family member who could use some cheer, here are the best divorce gifts.