Netflix/Getty Naya Tuiasosopo, the former Ronaiah Tuiasosopo
Naya Tuiasosopo is the former Ronaiah Tuiasosopo who was famously accused of catfishing football player Manti Te’o.
Tuiasosopo was accused of being the person behind Te’o’s fake girlfriend, Lennay Kekua. According to The New York Post, Ronaiah Tuiasosopo is now a trangender woman named Naya Tuiasosopo.
Where is Tuiasosopo now? According to Bustle, she lives in Seattle, Washington, and uses the name Ronaiah as well as Naya. A Twitter page in Tuiasosopo’s name reveals employment at Lowe’s. The tweets are protected. Naya is on Facebook. Her posts focus on family. A recent post declared, “happy right here.” However, on Facebook, Tuiasosopo says she lives in Carson, California, and is single. An Instagram page was deleted.
The photos of “Lennay Kekua” were of a real woman named Diane O’Meara, who later revealed that she was a former high school classmate of Tuiasosopo. O’Meara spoke out about the incident in a 2013 CNN interview, saying that Tuiasosopo had asked her for a photo and took some from her Facebook page. She had no idea he was going to use them to catfish a football star.
For a time, the world grieved with Te’o, who was reeling over the supposed death of his girlfriend. Then it was revealed the girlfriend never existed at all.
In 2022, Netflix streamed the show, “Untold: The Girlfriend Who Didn’t Exist.” The caption reads, “From Notre Dame to the NFL, Manti Te’o’s future in football showed promise until a secret online relationship sent his life and career spiraling.”
Here’s what you need to know about the real story:
Tuiasosopo Wrote That Her 2022 New Year’s Resolution Was to Fall in Love
On Facebook, Tuiasosopo declared that her New Year’s resolution for 2022 was to fall in love. “Ready for you 2022! 🤌🏼🥴” she wrote.
Tuiasosopo spoke in the Netflix documentary.
“As horrible as it felt to do that, it was kind of a relief knowing that I was able to validate, still, a girl that wasn’t even real,” Tuiasosopo said.
Tuiasosopo told Dr. Phil, in an interview played in the documentary, that Tuiasosopo “grew feelings” for Te’o.
“As twisted and confusing as it may be, I cared for this person,” Tuiasosopo told Dr. Phil. “I did all that I can to help this person become a better person. It’s very painful to even talk about but the truth of it is that happened. I grew feelings. I grew emotions that sooner or later, I couldn’t control anymore.”
Deadspin Unraveled the Catfishing Hoax
LRT: Today marks 3-year anniversary of Lennay Kekua’s death. Please keep Manti’s little angel in your thoughts. 🙏 😇 http://t.co/SHOZjLrZ1P
In 2013, Deadspin revealed that the heartbreaking story of Kekua’s death was a “hoax.” The exhaustively detailed investigation report was written by Timothy Burke and Jack Dickey.
The story of Kekua and Te’o had even made the pages of Sports Illustrated. “In the span of six hours in September, as Sports Illustrated told it, Te’o learned first of the death of his grandmother, Annette Santiago, and then of the death of his girlfriend, Lennay Kekua,” Deadspin reported.
The story went that Kekua, 22, was injured in a car accident in California and then died of leukemia. According to Deadspin, the Sports Illustrated author even described how her “relatives told him that at her lowest points, as she fought to emerge from a coma, her breathing rate would increase at the sound of his voice.”
Started the Manti Te’o Netflix doc last night. A decade later it still astounds me that until the Deadspin story no one fact-checked anything during the whole season or even put a call in with Stanford’s registrar’s office to check if Lennay Kekua was ever enrolled there.
According to Deadspin, the football player spoke on television about letters Kekua sent him and the heartfelt story was featured in other respected publications.
ESPN wrote before the hoax unraveled:
Te’o’s family was originally set to meet Kekua for the first time this Saturday, and the emptiness probably will be felt in the same way it has been every day since her passing, when the couple’s ritual of falling asleep on the phone together came to a tragic end.
Kekua made Te’o promise he would not leave Notre Dame should anything happen to her, requesting only a few white roses. So he responded three days after her death by recording 12 tackles in a prime-time win at then-No. 10 Michigan State.
Only it wasn’t true.
Deadspin Wrote, ‘There Was No Lennay Kekua’
GettyManti Te’o
Deadspin could find no record of Kekua or her death and discovered photos of her were of a woman who had never met Te’o.
According to the Deadspin investigation, the relationship began on Twitter between @MTeo_5 and @lovalovaloveYOU, on Oct. 10, 2011.
However, the photos on that account were of the other woman unearthed by Deadspin, who was not Kekua. She told Deadspin she had sent the picture to a high school acquaintance named Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, who was actually a family friend of the football player. Tuiasosopo now is a trangender woman called Naya Tuiasosopo.
Deadspin wrote, “we spoke with friends and relatives of Ronaiah Tuiasosopo who asserted that Ronaiah was the man behind Lennay. He created Lennay in 2008.”
Concluded Deadspin, “There was no Lennay Kekua.”
According to Deadspin, Notre Dame released this statement:
On Dec. 26, Notre Dame coaches were informed by Manti Te’o and his parents that Manti had been the victim of what appears to be a hoax in which someone using the fictitious name Lennay Kekua apparently ingratiated herself with Manti and then conspired with others to lead him to believe she had tragically died of leukemia. The University immediately initiated an investigation to assist Manti and his family in discovering the motive for and nature of this hoax. While the proper authorities will continue to investigate this troubling matter, this appears to be, at a minimum, a sad and very cruel deception to entertain its perpetrators.
Te’o wrote:
This is incredibly embarrassing to talk about, but over an extended period of time, I developed an emotional relationship with a woman I met online. We maintained what I thought to be an authentic relationship by communicating frequently online and on the phone, and I grew to care deeply about her. To realize that I was the victim of what was apparently someone’s sick joke and constant lies was, and is, painful and humiliating. It further pains me that the grief I felt and the sympathies expressed to me at the time of my grandmother’s death in September were in any way deepened by what I believed to be another significant loss in my life. I am enormously grateful for the support of my family, friends and Notre Dame fans throughout this year. To think that I shared with them my happiness about my relationship and details that I thought to be true about her just makes me sick. I hope that people can understand how trying and confusing this whole experience has been. In retrospect, I obviously should have been much more cautious. If anything good comes of this, I hope it is that others will be far more guarded when they engage with people online than I was. Fortunately, I have many wonderful things in my life, and I’m looking forward to putting this painful experience behind me as I focus on preparing for the NFL Draft.
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